Thursday, January 26, 2012

Mothering Moments in the Proverbs


"Keep thy heart with all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life."
Proverbs 4:23

As busy mothers we are called to tend to the needs of our children. We plan their meals and seek to give them balanced nutrition for their growing bodies. We are always on the lookout for a bargain in getting the next size pair of shoes or outfit for our growing children.

To keep a clean and orderly home is a priority for many of us. Giving our families a comfortable environment for learning and growing is an important part of our high calling. The education of our children's minds gives us much thought and care, whether we homeschool our little ones, or take an active part in their outside education.

Yes, being a mother is an all-encompassing task as we train, raise, and care for our families. 

For a few moments today, I would like to concentrate on the most important priority that the Lord reminds us of in the caring for our children, and that is the care of their hearts.  If we care for the bodies, minds, and outward needs of our sons and daughters, but neglect their hearts we have missed the main thing.

We must keep the hearts of our children, and train them how to keep their own hearts.  As they grow and learn how to depend upon the Lord for themselves, we must teach them how to be watchful over this most important area of their life.

And all depends upon the keeping of our hearts...the issues of life depend upon it. Our souls and the souls of our little ones are at stake. 

How do we guard our hearts?

  • By walking in close communion and dependence upon the Lord Jesus Christ. 
  • By keeping up daily seeking of Him through prayer and the reading of His word.
  • By being sensitive to the promptings of the Spirit as He quickens us through our consciences to areas of sin in our life.
  • By not trusting our own hearts, which will deceive us and lean towards that which displeases the Lord.
  • By looking to Jesus who in all things pleased the Father.

    So today, dear mother, may I encourage you to refocus on those things that have slid around the home, the needful schooling, the schedules that can bring more organization, etc.

    But, in all your doings, keep at the forefront, at the top of the list, the hearts of those under you.

    The hearts of your flock around you, tend to those first and foremost. Lead your little ones to the One who alone can truly keep their hearts.


    Jenny is an ordinary mom with an extraordinary God. Following a beautiful courtship, she has been married to her best friend for over 16 years. Jenny homeschools her 7 children (ages 14-8mo).  When she is not teaching, playing with her children, or changing diapers, she loves to sing, write, blog and clean...yes, clean.  


    As a recovering OCD perfectionist and "neat freak" she still has unmatched socks, messy closets and is allergic to mornings. Jenny is also the author of the ebook Embracing the Mess. 


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    6 Lovely Rubies:

    1. Beautiful! It's easy to put things ahead of people. Schedules before tender hearts! This is a lovely reminder that priorities designed and aligned by God are an invaluable tool to a spiritually healthy home!

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    2. How many time our house looked like a disaster area because we needed to deal with some heart issue! It's so very important and everything else can wait :-)

      thank for sharing this beautiful post!

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    3. And how many times do we as mothers judge how our days are going based on our check list? I am so guilty of this! But, all might be a mess, dishes piled in the sink, and laundry everywhere, but heart to heart with Jesus has happened..and it is beautiful.

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    4. Yes, it is very easy to consider a Good Day one where we check everything off our To-Do lists and follow our schedules . . . never paying attention to the casualties of wounded spirits that are all around us! This is a wonderful reminder to tend to our children's hearts first and foremost! I couldn't agree more!

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