Friday, July 08, 2011

Home: A Woman's Domain

Home is a refuge for women who live busy, productive lives taking care of husband, children, and various responsibilities.

Revelation of such sweetness has been a blessing to many women who have been liberated by returning home.


Home is where wives and mothers reign without deadlines and an oversheduling of duties. You can limit the amount of appointments and interruptions that come into your home. You have authority over your planner and life. You don't have to allow guests into your home every week for the sake of hospitality. Your husband and children come first - and there should be no pressure to entertain others when not possible.

The productivity and busyness of a woman is complimented in the way she keeps her home. She is not busy with ridicilous and unnessary appointments that take her out of the home. She is not idle and lazy either. Instead - she is busy and eager to work with her hands cleaning, cooking, sewing, organizing and beautifying her home with lovely fragrances that welcome her husband and children into a place of serenity and joy.


Home provides daily sources of enrichment and knowledge. Mother teaching children about God and living out the example at home brings a true sense of God's goodness, wisdom, and provision. The privilege to homeschool is a time to teach God's precepts and laws - everything else is secondary.

Homeschooling is not a time to stress and fill our children up with useless information and activities. Ask yourself how does this activity profit my family and others for the glory of God, because a mother who is stressed doesn't bring glory to anyone. Becareful with the scheduling of your time.

Teaching a child to read rich volumes of literary and biblical works demand no dipolma or certificate stating you are qualified. It requires a love of reading and teaching children what is most life changing and rewarding to their spirit man.
Home is a lifestyle where we teach our daughters to work beside us eventually exceling our motherly and wifely duties. Our sons should be to prepared in leadership, workmanship, and godliness. Boys should be able to lead their younger siblings without mother on hand at a relatively young age  - for they will one day lead their own families.

A young man, who has worked by his father's side, may be able to build a home by the time he is 18 or younger.

"Put your work in order outside, and make it ready in the field; and after that, see to the building of your house." Proverbs 24:17

Consider how God and Adam had a home prepared for Eve. She had the most beautiful home ready for care and love. Genesis 2.

Daughters observing mothers work and be productive at home while remaining joyful and content are more likely to receive the duty placed upon them by God. Titus 2.


Sons watching virtuous mothers and sisters will understand more readily what they need in a future wife.

A husband who is gone for most of the day may see a wife become lonely or discontent, but if she finds and learns to work willingly with her hands and puts task to a sewing project or new recipe - her days will be full and productive.

Although a woman at home keeps her eye on time, she is in no particular hurry. This is a great advantage to her mental state and well being. She can rest when her body calls her to rest. A woman at home has time to ponder those things that are most important to her family and God.

Homemakers are not obligated to keep the same time as the public. Although you must make good use of your time, you have the freedom to curtail projects and appointments.

Married women and daughters at home do not require a committee, Bible study group, or slogans to convice others that they are liberated and content. It takes one woman at a time taking up her God-given role in the home.


A hundred men may make an encampment, but it takes a woman to make a home. Chinese Proverb.


To read more on the home, click here.

19 comments:

  1. Good word, this makes life feel a little freer when the world makes you to believe you have to have your hand in all kinds of pots everywhere to be considered a good mom, this always makes me feel like I can't measure up, but this narrows it down to the way Jesus sees us as homemakers and that would be IN THE HOME!

    Jasmine, you are a great teacher, hope you are having a great summer with those darlings of yours and your man. Enjoying the sun?

    ReplyDelete
  2. Thank you for sharing you profound and beautiful thoughts. This piece touched me because I am having trouble making my home a home since my children have grown and have lives of their own. I lack motivation to do things I once did with joy. I think I will go and clean and find one of my unfinished projects to heal my soul and give me back my joy.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Marlece and Cat - thank you so much for sharing. I'm glad it blessed you.

    Cat, so encouraged that you found motivation here with this article. Let me know how it goes.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Great post Jasmine! Very beautifully written...as ALWAYS! :)

    ReplyDelete
  5. "Revelation of such sweetness has been a blessing to many women who have been liberated by returning home."

    So true! Liberated is exactly how I feel since making that fateful decision to return home. Thank you for the encouragement!

    Amy
    makingajoyfulhome.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  6. Beautiful!

    Liberated is the word. I love that I am able to make the decisions about my own schedule.

    And I am so grateful for the opportunity to be the primary caregiver and teacher for my children on a day-to-day basis.

    ReplyDelete
  7. Amen!

    It's been a very liberating experience to be taking care of my home full-time. It's a joy and a pleasure that I take great pleasure in each day!

    Beautiful post, Jasmine! :)

    ReplyDelete
  8. Thank you again for well written and so encouraging words!

    ReplyDelete
  9. Beautifully said, Jasmine. Thanks for sharing.
    I'm stopping by from the Friday blog hop @ likeabubblingbrook.com. I would love for you to stop by my blog: http://oliveplantsallaroundmytable.blogspot.com

    Blessings,
    Lisa

    ReplyDelete
  10. As the other ladies have said, this is a beautiful post. It gives off such peace when I read it.

    And I have to agree, it is completely liberating to do the will of the Lord in my home.

    Thanks for the encouragement.
    Stacie
    no-idle-bread.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  11. Lisa, Silena, Stacie, Wildflower, thank you for your kind words. :-)

    ReplyDelete
  12. I needed this today. Thank-you Jasmine!

    ReplyDelete
  13. Amen!! Thanks for the encouragement, I really needed this today :) God Bless!! Kendra-

    ReplyDelete
  14. Perfect post for my Monday...very uplifting and enlightening and validating...I love being a stay at home mom to my husband and 4 children and thank the Lord everyday for all the laundry, snuggles, messes because some are not as fortunate to be home but this does bring it back to what we are really doing here..God's work not just housework!!! Thank you...I am beginning to take more time for me to find inspiration and this was a perfect start to that journey!!!
    I don't have a blog but My name is Annamarie Nutt..found this post through Raising Arrows

    ReplyDelete
  15. Thank you for this...today I am beginning a quest to spend a bit more time finding inspiration/peace everyday as a mom of 4 and this was a wonderful way to start...thank you and Thank you Lord.

    ReplyDelete
  16. This is one I will share. I wasn't brought up to be a homekeeper, but I want to train my girls for that work. Many think I have wasted my college education by staying at home with my children. My husband and I don't see it that way.

    ReplyDelete
  17. This is the first article I have read and it is wonderful! I saw the link on my FB page when Amy from Raising Arrows commented about it. I am so thankful she did! I admit, I feel a little convicted but also maybe a renewed sense of inspiration as well! What a beautiful blessing from the Lord you have been given to write! Thanks - Angela J.

    ReplyDelete

Love hearing from you.